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The Art of Possibility: Transforming Professional and Personal Life by Rosamund Stone Zander and Benjamin Zander

The Art of Possibility: Transforming Professional and Personal Life

by Rosamund Stone Zander and Benjamin Zander

This book is to provide the reader the means to lift off from that world of struggle and sail into a vast universe of possibility. Our premise is that many of the circumstances that seem to block us in our daily lives may only appear to do so based on a framework of assumptions we carry with us. Draw a different frame around the same set of circumstances and new pathways come into view. Find the right framework and extraordinary accomplishment becomes an everyday experience.

THE FIRST PRACTICE It’s All Invented 

THE PRACTICE 

THE SECOND PRACTICE STEPPING INTO A Universe of Possibility

THE WORLD OF MEASUREMENT

A UNIVERSE OF POSSIBILITY 

In the measurement world, you set a goal and strive for it. In the universe of possibility, you set the context and let life unfold.

THE THIRD PRACTICE Giving an A

This A is not an expectation to live up to, but a possibility to live into.

THE SECRET OF LIFE

THE PRACTICE OF giving the A both invents and recognizes a universal desire in people to contribute to others, no matter how many barriers there are to its expression.

WHEN HE RETIRED from the Supreme Court, Justice Thurgood Marshall was asked of what accomplishment he was most proud. He answered, simply, “That I did the best I could with what I had.” Could there be any greater acknowledgment? He gave himself an A, and within this framework he was free to speak of errors of judgment, of things he would have done differently had he had access to other views.

RECONSTRUCTING OUR PAST

THE ONLY GRACE you can have is the grace you can imagine.

FOURTH PRACTICE 

Being a Contribution

I saw the whole thing was made up and that the game of success was just that, a game. I realized I could invent another game.

WHEN, IN THIS BOOK, we refer to various activities of life as “games,” we do not mean to imply that these activities are frivolous or make no difference. We are simply pointing to the fact that any accepted model for doing things comes with an implicit set of rules, and that these rules govern our behavior just as surely as the rules of baseball govern the movements of the players on the field

THE PRACTICE 

LIKE RIPPLES IN A POND

I discovered a person cannot live a full life under the shadow of bitterness.”

There is no such thing as bad weather, only inappropriate clothing.”

THE FIFTH PRACTICE 

Leading from Any Chair

THE SILENT CONDUCTOR 

WHITE SHEETS 

LISTENING FOR PASSION and commitment is the practice of the silent conductor whether the players are sitting in the orchestra, on the management team, or on the nursery floor. 

What would I say if I was suddenly called upon to lead?

How much greatness do we expect of those around us? It matters.

THE SIXTH PRACTICE Rule Number 6

THE PRACTICE OF this chapter is to lighten up, which may well light up those around you.

Inscribed on five of the six pillars in the Holocaust Memorial at Quincy Market in Boston are stories that speak of the cruelty and suffering in the camps. The sixth pillar presents a tale of a different sort, about a little girl named Ilse, a childhood friend of Guerda Weissman Kline, in Auschwitz. Guerda remembers that Ilse, who was about six years old at the time, found one morning a single raspberry somewhere in the camp. Ilse carried it all day long in a protected place in her pocket, and in the evening, her eyes shining with happiness, she presented it to her friend Guerda on a leaf. “Imagine a world,” writes Guerda, “in which your entire possession is one raspberry, and you give it to your friend.”

UNLIKE THE calculating self, the central self is neither a pattern of action nor a set of strategies. It does not need an identity; it is its own pure expression

THE SEVENTH PRACTICE The Way Things Are

Eliminate the Should’s

DOWNWARD SPIRAL TALK

THE EIGHTH PRACTICE Giving Way to Passion 

There is a vitality, a life force, an energy, a quickening that is translated through you into action, and because there is only one of you in all of time, this expression is unique. And if you block it, it will never exist through any other medium and it will be lost. The world will not have it. It is not your business to determine how good it is nor how valuable nor how it compares with other expressions. It is your business to keep it yours clearly and directly, to keep the channel open. —MARTHA GRAHAM, quoted by Agnes DeMille, Martha: The Life and Work of Martha Graham

LONG LINES

THE NINTH PRACTICE Lighting a Spark

  1. Imagine that people are an invitation for enrollment. 2.  Stand ready to participate, willing to be moved and inspired. 3.  Offer that which lights you up. 4.  Have no doubt that others are eager to catch the spark.

THE TENTH PRACTICE Being the Board

A GAME OF CHESS

THE PRACTICE: PART TWO Then, in this game, you take your practice one step further: You ask yourself, in regard to the unwanted circumstances, “Well, how did this get on the board that I am?” or, “Now, how is it that I have become a context for that to occur?”

THE ELEVENTH PRACTICE CREATING Frameworks for Possibility

FRAMING POSSIBILITY: THE PRACTICE 

A VISION IS A powerful framework to take the operations of an organization of any size from the downward spiral into the arena of possibility. Yet, while most organizations use the term “vision” liberally, we have found that few have articulated a vision in such a way that it serves that purpose.

VISION

How? By the same route that musicians take to get to Carnegie Hall—through practice. Choose the practices that express yourself; they will keep you in the boat. They will shape your voice as a unique contribution to us all. You can turn your attention away from the onslaught of circumstances and listen for the music of your being; then launch yourself as a long line into the world.

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